You aren't happy with your present situation and are becoming more dissatisfied every day. You know that your life needs to change. Whether that requires you to change your current job or your current relationship,
Despite your countless Facebook friends and Instagram followers, you are beginning to count your true friends on one hand. You are spending less time with people who drain your energy and bring nothing but negativity.
You are becoming more assertive and learning to say no to the things that no longer benefit you. At first, you felt guilty because you hate letting people down. But you know that putting yourself first is more important.
You fear the unknown. You fear change. You fear that you may not achieve anything in your life. You fear what the future will bring. Feelings of anxiety and confusion begin to surface.
You have an increased desire to spend time alone. Life is fast-paced and you are used to being pulled in so many different directions. There is never a moment to just sit and simply chill by yourself. You need the space to mentally recharge.
You are no longer taking what people say about your appearance, your relationship status, your sexuality, or your life choices personally. Life is too short for you to concern yourself with the opinions of others.
Life has become predictable. Your routine has become boring. You have reached a point where you no longer feel that excitement that you used to feel before. You know deep down that you have to work on yourself and start to pursue your passions.
You are no longer interested in dating several people at once. You are starting to weed out the people that do not share the same qualities as you. Getting trapped in a bad relationship or simply settling does not appeal to you.
While you still like to stay connected online, you don’t spend each moment checking your Instagram or TikTok feed. You realize the importance of stepping away from social media and spending more time interacting with people face to face in real life rather than through a screen.
You question if you are heading in the right direction. You wonder if you are making the right decisions. You have become so accustomed to doing things a certain way that the idea of breaking the mold is frightening. You know deep down that this is not going to be an easy journey,