Top 10 pillars of healthy relationships

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You can be yourself

In accepting each other as is, partners find freedom to be authentic without fear of judgment. Research indicates this fosters satisfaction in relationships.

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You are BFFs

Being best friends with your partner brings commitment, sexual satisfaction, emotional support, intimacy, and a strong bond. It fulfills needs for caregiving, security, and companionship.

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You feel comfortable and close

Your relationship fosters comfort, emotional closeness, and vulnerability. Trusting each other brings stability, eliminating emotional barriers and worries of abandonment, enhancing the bond between you.

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You’re more alike than different

Key similarities outweigh differences, enhancing relationship satisfaction. Shared activities, values, and interests create a strong bond, even amidst contrasting preferences.

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You feel like a team

Shared language and identity reinforce unity in relationships. Using "we" and "us" signifies cognitive closeness, leading to higher satisfaction and commitment.

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They make you a better person

Partner supports personal growth, encourages self-improvement without control. Together, you seek new experiences, fostering self-development. Relationship thrives when individuals expand and grow.

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You share the power

In a balanced relationship, decision making and influence are shared. Partners with equal say and fair division of labor experience greater satisfaction, longevity, and happiness.

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They’re fundamentally good

Good partners embody reliability, warmth, kindness, fairness, trustworthiness, and intelligence. These traits foster resilience and satisfaction in relationships.

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You trust each other

Mutual trust fosters reliance and support. It extends beyond sharing passwords or accounts; partners prioritize each other's well-being and provide unwavering presence.

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You don’t have serious issues

Absence of serious issues like disrespect, cheating, jealousy, and abuse is a blessing. It illuminates the positivity in a relationship, avoiding relationship killers.

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