The Major Differences Between Being 'In Lust' And 'In Love'

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Putting effort into your appearance is important when dating, but it doesn't have to be extravagant or expensive. Dress comfortably and be yourself.

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When you’re in lust, you dress to the nines — maybe even the tens

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Love is about feeling comfortable and at ease with each other. Whether you're in fancy attire or wearing sweatpants, it's the connection that matters.

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When you’re in lust, you look past their foolishness

In the early stages of love, we may overlook minor annoyances. However, addressing concerns and offering constructive criticism can help both partners grow.

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Love involves wanting the best for each other. Open communication and accepting feedback can lead to personal growth and stronger relationships.

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When you’re in lust, you say what they want to hear

In love, don't just aim to please. Express your true feelings and opinions, even if they differ from your partner's.

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Embrace healthy debate and open communication. It's okay to have different views; it fosters growth and understanding in a relationship.

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Love isn't about being perfect. Even the most flawless appearances can have hidden flaws.

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When you’re in lust, the person you're with is a Greek God/Goddess

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In love, accept imperfections and embrace the beauty of someone's missing pieces. It's what makes them unique and real.

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Love goes beyond surface-level knowledge. It's about understanding the significance behind their favorite things.

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When you're in lust, you don't really know them

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In love, you embrace their past and appreciate the small details that make them who they are. Taking the time to know and understand them is a beautiful aspect of love.

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Which is either filled with rambling or make-out sessions. No objection to make-out sessions, of course, but the fact that you both find the silence awkward is a sign of discomfort.

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When you're in lust, silence is awkward

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Open up to someone you trust about your problems to alleviate stress. But wait for the ride-or-die stage before sharing with your partner.

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When you’re in lust, you don’t feel comfortable talking to them about your problems