Stop trying to be the one who’s okay with casual flings when you are not. You want to come across as being spontaneous and adventurous, but sometimes still crave the stability of a relationship.
Stop judging others for their past mistakes. You have a tendency to judge others before you get a real chance to get to know who they are on a deeper level.
Stop worrying about what people think about you so much. You tend to think people are always judging and criticizing you when they aren’t. And in all honesty.
Stop holding onto the past. It’s time for you to let go of people that hurt you. And situations that made you feel helpless.
Stop allowing your pride ruin every good thing that comes your way. You have a habit of ruining things before they even have a chance to begin. Your ego gets in the way,
Stop over analyzing every single detail. You are a deep thinker and you sometimes let your thoughts get the best of you.
Stop letting the wrong people in, and allow the right ones find you instead. You love to feel “popular” and like the life of the party everywhere you go in life.
Stop being so closed off from the idea of romance. The more you push love away, the more it will creep up on you someday.
Stop sitting back and letting life pass you by. You have a habit of letting things play out on their own, which can be a good thing at times.
Stop being so negative when it comes to love. Sure, you’ve had a couple rocky experiences in the past, we all have. You’re not doing yourself any favors by constantly expecting the worst.
Stop telling yourself that you have to be emotionally unavailable. Dating is messy. Love is messy. We’re all constantly hurting one another but that doesn’t make it any less amazing.
Stop altering yourself for other people. Sometimes you change parts of who you are in order to fit a certain role for another person.