Signs He's Lusting After You But Not In Love

Heart
Dot
Multiple Blue Rings

He moves things forward really fast.

He’s giving you the full-court press, calling, texting, sending flowers, and even declaring his love by the second date. He wants to go exclusive right away and wants to marry you within a week.

Dot
Multiple Blue Rings
Dot

He only seems interested in what's between the sheets.

Do you end up in bed before you even make it out of the house and miss the start of the movie? Does his idea of a date involve making sure you drink enough to let down your inhibitions?

Multiple Blue Rings

He only reaches out to you at the last minute.

A guy who wants a relationship with you will want to plan a date with you in advance. He’ll want to lock in spending time with you so that other guys can’t.

Dot
Multiple Blue Rings

If you don’t know anything about where he works or who his friends are and he doesn’t openly share what's going on in his life, then he’s really only seeing you for one thing.

Dot

Details of his life are fuzzy or vague.

Multiple Blue Rings

If you’ve never met any of his friends or family and he’s not really interested in meeting yours, then that’s another dating red flag. Part of falling in love is sharing your life with one another, and that includes friends and family.

Dot

Friends and family aren’t part of your relationship.

Multiple Blue Rings

Is he more than willing to share his sexual fantasies with you but he’s not willing to share his heart or allow himself to be vulnerable? If this is the case, he’s probably not emotionally available for a relationship.

Dot

He doesn’t open up to you emotionally.

Multiple Blue Rings

You may find him super attractive but may not be ready to jump into bed right away with a stranger. If he won’t wait for you to feel more comfortable sharing yourself with him, then he’s not really interested in more than sex.

Dot

He’s too impatient and won’t wait for you.

Multiple Blue Rings

Are you constantly wondering where things are going between the two of you because he’s never talking about a future with you?

Dot

He doesn’t ever plan for the future

Multiple Blue Rings

Does he show up unannounced and expect you to be available? Does he push you to be intimate and not take no for an answer?

Dot

He doesn’t respect your boundaries

Signs Your Relationship Is All Chemistry 

Heart
Dot