Repeating harmful patterns despite red flags or character flaws, you endure recurring pain from the same partner. It may stem from self-worth doubts or reliving past wounds.
Excessive negative self-talk reveals emotional masochism. Consistently critical inner dialogue, influenced by past abusers, needs intervention. Seek therapy promptly
Creating drama intentionally or unconsciously, you thrive on chaos. Adrenaline fuels you, and absence of conflict leaves you feeling empty. Unaware of negative energy's impact, it affects your life.
Drawn to toxicity? Surrounded by mean or abusive people? You're the common denominator. Comfort or low self-esteem may be to blame. Remember, our circle is our choice.
Emotional masochist? Healthy relationships bore, so you end them. Unfamiliar stability lacks excitement. Unaware of ending due to healthiness. Closeness discomfort prompts exit.
Need conflict for affection. Fights validate care. Passionate sex and closeness stem from highs and lows. Angry, break-up, and fight sex trump intimacy.
Seeking approval from resistant individuals, causing self-inflicted pain. Struggling to release the need for validation from those who withhold it. Difficulty accepting their lack of approval.
Boundary issues: Allowing others to exploit, people-pleasing without regard for self-respect. Pattern of being taken advantage of by both respected and disregarded individuals.
Preferring misery over company, I'm drawn to the perpetually negative, embracing the victim mentality. Not just supporting friends in crisis, but actively seeking out those who always see themselves as victims.
The last tell-tale sign of an emotional masochist? You make choices that lead to your own demise or failures. You tend to live in a repetitive loop of self-defeat.