"Beware of love bombing: early investment, manipulation, grand gestures, then withdrawal. Linked to narcissism, gaslighting, and emotional abuse. A significant red flag."
Ury warns against excessive focus on profiles and followers. 74% of Hinge users view it as a red flag, suggesting insecurity or self-absorption. Media's impact is profound.
Communication is crucial in relationships. If your partner is unresponsive or inattentive, it suggests disconnection or distraction, according to Dr. Behr.
Jealousy in relationships can be harmless, but when it turns into possessiveness, control, isolation, or dictating your choices, it indicates potential emotional abuse, warns Trombetti.
Dr. Behr: No family ties/talking negatively about loved ones could be concerning. Ury: Give benefit of doubt, ask partner why. They may have difficult past but built strong friendships.
Trombetti: Unmanageable emotions/anger/silent treatment = red flag for abuse. Lack of empathy = emotional void. Seek someone with controlled, appropriate emotions.
Excessive alcohol/substance use = possible addiction. Have serious talk. Refusal for help = deal-breaker. Willingness to seek help = relationship growth potential.
Gaslighting in modern dating shifts blame onto you for their actions, making you feel crazy. It's manipulative, leaving you insecure. Trust your instincts and exit the relationship.
If you experience any form of abuse or danger in a relationship, seek help and leave immediately. These red flags should never be resolved within the relationship.