How to get over hurt feelings in a relationship

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Feel the pain, express emotions, avoid repression. Don't pretend to be fine; it leads to unhealthy coping mechanisms. Cry, seek support, avoid aggression and excessive substance use.

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Allow yourself to grieve

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Express feelings in a healthy way. Don't isolate or transfer aggression. Reflect on the hurt, talk to yourself or journal. Be honest and thorough until there's nothing left unsaid.

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Express your feelings clearly

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Accept your hurt

Acknowledge and label your pain. Identify the source of hurt. Communicate your feelings to the person involved. Understanding the cause helps in healing and resolving the issue.

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Talk to the other person in the relationship

Communicate your feelings calmly and assertively. Express how you were hurt and establish healthy boundaries. Listen to their perspective without judgment. Create a safe space for open communication, fostering understanding and growth in the relationship.

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Make positive emotional changes

Manage emotions by taking positive action and staying busy. Fix issues, engage in activities, and prioritize what's essential in life to avoid dwelling on pain in relationships.

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Focus on the present and learn from the past. Find closure and think positively. Highlight lessons and create a plan to avoid similar situations. Move forward confidently.

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Don’t dwell on the past

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Reconnect with activities that make you happy. Appreciate the good things and people in your life. Be grateful and improve relationships. Spread happiness to others. Appreciate the little things that bring joy.

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Focus on the crucial things in your life

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Take responsibility for your actions. Reflect on your role in the situation and consider if you could have handled things differently. Recognize your weaknesses and commit to personal growth.

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Take responsibility

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Prioritize self-care after being hurt in a relationship. Engage in activities that promote your well-being, such as self-reflection, relaxation techniques, exercise, and pursuing hobbies. Invest in yourself and nurture your emotional, physical, and mental health.

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Take care of yourself

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Seek support from loved ones and seek professional help from a therapist or counselor to heal and move forward from relationship hurt.

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Talk to someone

Tips on How to Lose Feelings for Someone You Love

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