10 Signs He's Using You Because He Hates Being Alone

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You chase after him like a celebrity.

First and foremost, men naturally love to pursue women. If any guy is interested in you, he will be the one doing the pursuing. When he's truly interested in you, he will find a way to talk to you.

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Sometimes, both men and women are a bit bashful when starting a conversation with the opposite sex. It can be scary to send the first text message.

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He doesn’t bother to text you back, engage in good conversation, or try to get to know you.

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If you continuously try to make plans with him and he seems to always make an excuse, you're probably just an option. No matter how busy any human being is, regardless of your gender, you would always make time for someone that matters to you.

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He treats you like an option rather than a priority.

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If someone truly liked you or genuinely cared about you, you wouldn’t need to convince yourself otherwise. You would just know; you would feel it in every fiber of your body.

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He truly acts like he doesn’t care.

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Sometimes, it's difficult for guys to express their emotions because some of them have no idea how to do it. They were taught to hide their them because being emotional is considered a weakness.

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He doesn’t express his emotions.

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When you first start dating or speaking to him, he probably won’t introduce you to his friends and the important people in his life just yet. However, if you’ve been talking to him for a while and you're still being kept a secret, be a bit skeptical.

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He doesn’t make you part of his life.

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Selfish people tend to only be good to themselves. People truly reveal themselves through their actions. Sex is a two-way street and it should be a fun experience for both of you. He should make you feel like the most beautiful, loved, and amazing girl in the world.

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He's selfish inside and outside of the bedroom.

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If he only wants to Netflix and Chill, you're probably just a hook-up with no strings attached. There's nothing wrong with this lifestyle; however, if you're looking for something more serious, guard your heart. Don’t catch feelings.

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He doesn’t put in an effort to take you out on dates.

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When a guy is always free, it's a strong indication that he is lonely. If he has no friends, no plans, or activities, it could mean that you have become a distraction for him.

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He never has other plans.

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He may be spending a lot of time with you because he is lonely, that's why he is keeping you around. He probably has nothing else to do so he spends a lot of time with you, but doesn't necessarily want to be in a relationship with you.

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He says he's not looking for anything serious.

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